回复: 家有儿女初长成
尝试沟通
上周接到儿子老师电话,其本意是想让孩子多参加一个她的收费补习班,考虑她在电话中不吝口舌地对俺家儿子的赞扬,于是乎钱又去了,儿子也多一项业余功课(儿子半推半就地接受后,恨得咬牙切龄)。
昨天是孩子第一天去上课,俺趁儿子不备,递老师手写信件一封(因为不知道她的联络方式,单知道学校的电话)。估且不管水平如何,现录入如下,他日再做更正。
Hi L,
I am J. R‘s mom. First of all, thank you for caring about R. We have talked by phone last Friday afternoon, I do think you really know R after he took your class only a few times. As you said, R is an intellegent boy but he is so lazy after class, then he find an excuse for himself "I don't care the result(mark)..." This is a big problem when he need prove his English skills more. As a new immegration here (no more than 3 years), he should do more things but not to just show up in class.
Secondly, R. need more reading process. At home he reads lots of Chinese books but not English book. I have tried to persuade him to read English books half an hour per day, but it still didn't work. In my opinion, Reading is not only a habbit but really prove your lanuage skills. So my problem is, would you please give him more reading homework which is suitable for such teenager and his English level?
Thirdly, R. really loves to go to your class, he enjoys spending time here even though he seals his mouth at home but we still can finger out it from his actions. This is a good beginning. If he likes, he can do it better.
At last, I do appreciate for your unselfish help. If you need me know anything please feel free to contact me on cell:..,...,.... or email address:.........@....
Best Regards
Sincerely
J.
纰漏百出,但是勇气可嘉哦。换了你是俺,是不是早挖地洞钻进去了?呵呵,俺也想学些遁形术。。。