looks this is right place for me. Nobody can tell what or how to overcome the difficulty in your life, nobody can actually help you out from the dark life. You have to live up by yourself no matter how. The pain and tears are not easy to be understood by others until the same experienced person in the life. Sometime I would prefer to hide myself in a dark night alone to taste the bitter of my life. Yes I don't think it helps me, but just about the life is not perfect . lots of no-no in our life always. Holly Crab, I feel both of us in misfortune go from shore to shore