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LZ没有提同向是两条车道, 还是一条. 我的理解是两条, LZ正好在大车右转要用两条的时候与大车车门并排. 如果是这样, 大车也有责任, 因为LZ已经早到另一条线正常行驶, 是大车右转要用两条道路而切到LZ的线上, 且没有看盲点(新手). 不过LZ开车太小心, 且慢, 不是慢就安全, 千万不要长时跟大车前后左右, 要快速远离, 该快一点就要果断提速. 不过LZ是不是也要右转? 为什么要换到另一线?

同向是两条线，两条线当时都是直线。

 

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从告票的内容上看，你是“failled to use designated lane" 也就是说你走错了道。 从你的描述上看，你原来是走在卡车的左边的，有没有可能你在想右转时偏离了自己的道而越线走到在你右边的卡车道上了？（这种情况在稍一分神就可能发生）在这起事故中有６个人受伤，不是小case, 警察一定有充足的证据，而且你也说有五个目击证人，想打掉告票的可能性基本为零。除非你自己先掏钱否则不会有人接这种胜算极低的案子。即使你在这起事故中失去宝宝令人同情也不可能改变你对这起事故应负的责任。

如果美国的医院真的把纸巾（？？，一般手术不用这个）留在你的体内了， 问清楚NGH的医生到底是什么？ 是不应该留在体内的东西还是一些可吸收的止血棉（现在手术时，如果某处出血量大不容易控制，医生可以有止血棉压在上面起到止血的作用，有时一种止血棉是 不需要拿出来的，它可以留在体内被降解吸收）。如果美国医院真有过错，你随便联系一个律师，他们都会乐意接你的案子，这种案子获得赔偿的机会是很高的，但前提是你要有证据。

没有证据，我只知道被急救车送去唐人街医院的时候我大出血几个小时几乎危及生命。当时医生也没有及时处理，而是等了一两个小时才进来的，他们把东西放进去宝宝把宝宝弄出来的，而且之后就在下面弄了几下就出去了。过了半个多小时另外一个女的进来在我子宫里面按来按去，摸来摸去的后来告诉我可以回家了，当时是晚上七点多进去的，十一点半就叫我离开了，其它什么都没有做，连检查和打点滴都没有做要求我离开手术室

 

[CanChn]

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保险公司从发生车祸至今为给我任何答复，而且我全保而且全新的车子他们说只能赔偿一部分，外加在美国的医疗费用只赔一点点，没有全部赔。因为车是7月初刚买的，现在自己这样不知道如何是好。

即使是刚买的新车，保险公司也不会全额赔你一辆新车的，除非你另外买了保险。车保里有一种附加险可以在５年之内你车损后全额赔辆新车，但需要另外交钱投保。
你的新车从你开出dealer车场的那一刻就不值一辆新车价了，因为已经是used car了。所以，保险公司只会按市值赔一部分（你可以在报纸广告栏查查同样的车卖价做参考）。
楼主目前不要纠结这些，应当首先调养好自己的身体。其它事可以多看看多问问，但不要看的太重。如果英语不好，可以找华人社团寻求帮助。只要你有OHIP，美国的医疗也会报销一部分的，保险公司那边最好的办法是找律师，对于你后续的治疗以及可能产生的各种后果，只有靠保险公司才有可能得到赔偿。

 

[盈婆婆]

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1.楼主把头像正过来吧.
2.孩子有孩子的缘分.不是你的,去就去了吧.
3.大难不死必有后福.

 

[sob1976]

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没有证据，我只知道被急救车送去唐人街医院的时候我大出血几个小时几乎危及生命。当时医生也没有及时处理，而是等了一两个小时才进来的，他们把东西放进去宝宝把宝宝弄出来的，而且之后就在下面弄了几下就出去了。过了半个多小时另外一个女的进来在我子宫里面按来按去，摸来摸去的后来告诉我可以回家了，当时是晚上七点多进去的，十一点半就叫我离开了，其它什么都没有做，连检查和打点滴都没有做要求我离开手术室

叹息

LZ似乎还未明白她当天犯什么样的错误...

 

[neowangkkk]

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燕儿1976说的极是：
“大家也不要把有些话说的那么难听，即便是LZ的错，她现在正在最难过的关口，要是能帮上就帮帮，帮不上就多祝福她吧，更何况不一定是LZ的错，要是大货的错，会给被人冤枉的LZ的伤口再撒一把盐，都是同胞，我们又何苦呢，要是这事发生在自己身上，你们会怎么想呢”
应当将心比心。

 

[neowangkkk]

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像这样的事情，是不是装行车记录仪会有帮助提供证据？

 

[doremee]

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没有证据，我只知道被急救车送去唐人街医院的时候我大出血几个小时几乎危及生命。当时医生也没有及时处理，而是等了一两个小时才进来的，他们把东西放进去宝宝把宝宝弄出来的，而且之后就在下面弄了几下就出去了。过了半个多小时另外一个女的进来在我子宫里面按来按去，摸来摸去的后来告诉我可以回家了，当时是晚上七点多进去的，十一点半就叫我离开了，其它什么都没有做，连检查和打点滴都没有做要求我离开手术室

医学术语: 刮除术
医疗程序
用刮匙刮或舀
从母亲的子宫中删除死胎

即使是刚买的新车，保险公司也不会全额赔你一辆新车的，除非你另外买了保险。车保里有一种附加险可以在５年之内你车损后全额赔辆新车，但需要另外交钱投保。

哪个省给5年？
我的是每年续约时才续附加险

 

[new_mic]

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我宁可在大货车后面保持距离慢慢走也不去超，急什么...?

这个，有时也挺危险的，大车轮胎会带起一些石头打到后车的挡风玻璃上，去年爱民顿有个女的就是被前面大货车带起的石头穿过玻璃后击中头部挂了。记住珍惜生命，要远离大车。

在大卡车后面不安全，大部分视线被挡，大卡车甩出来石块有可能致命的。所以即便跟车要保持足够的安全距离。

楼主大晚上弯道超大车,犯一大忌,车祸后还㘴长途巴士去唐人街找医生一路出血疼痛,真是惊心动魄太恐怖了,也不怕遇上没执照的医生丢命,楼主所有的决定都让人感觉楼主一直处在nervous无头乱闯的状态

请问用什么输入法打出来这个字？

 

[小葡萄]

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而且牧师说我这样只能认罪，如果认罪的话宝宝的冤屈怎么伸？

我一个朋友两次流产，牧师也说要认罪。我认为这个牧师说的不对，他是胡乱猜测。约伯记里面，约伯的朋友也让约伯认罪，可是圣经说他遭灾不是因为犯罪。首先牧师不知道到底责任在谁，这样说太草率。其次，他忽略了一个问题，遭到不测并不是都因为犯罪，也可能是别人犯罪或者违规，也可能是自己失职。也可能是其他原因。你怀孕三个月驾驶，的确需要付上一定责任，但不是全责。另外，孩子没有出母胎就不能算是一个生命，创世纪说了，一个人有了气开始呼吸才能算是造成了一个人。我认为不能把未出生的孩子说成是一条命，只能说是你们两个人的损失。是你的冤屈，不是宝宝的冤屈。

 

[CanChn]

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哪个省给5年？
我的是每年续约时才续附加险

不是说交一次钱管５年，而是每年都要交保费，超过５年就不能再保了。

 

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Cortlandville Town Court
3577 Terrace Road
Cortland
NY 13045

Aug. 23, 2013.

Dear Honorable Judge,

I regret that I could not appear in person to answer to the charge against me at 8:50 PM on Aug. 15, 2013 (3C23237GWM). I suffered severe personal and emotional trauma after the accident and was unfit to travel to the Court on Aug. 26, 2013. I have chosen to submit my plea of Not Guilty in writing.

First, let me give a detailed account of the event unfolded at the evening of Aug. 15, 2013.

• Around 8:30 PM, Aug. 15, 2013, I was driving on Hwy 81, heading toward New York City. My husband was sitting on the front passenger seat, while my daughter, Angela, was sitting in her car seat on the left and rear passenger seat.
• In that section of Hwy 81, the road was a divided highway, separated by guard rails. The road has two lanes, a right lane and a left passing lane.
• I had been following a tractor trailer truck on the right lane. The truck was driving slowly so I decided to pull out to the passing lane to pass.
• As I was driving alongside the truck, I noticed that the truck was beginning to move over to the left lane. I was forced to move left to stay away from the truck.
• Seconds later the truck had completely moved over to the passing lane and had forced my car onto the shoulder.
• The road began to take a slight curve to the right and the shoulder also narrowed. The truck pressed against my car on the front passenger side panel (See Picture 1). Then the trailer section of the truck hit the right real side of my car, causing my car to hit the guard rail 3 to 4 times before it came to a stop.
• The rear right side of my car suffered the most severe damage (see Pictures 2 & 3). It was as if the whole rear section was chopped off (see Picture 4). We were lucky to be alive because of the guard rail and the fact that there were no cars behind us.
• About a few minutes after the accident, a few cars passed by the scene of the accident. Some decided to stop to help. Someone called 911 and soon the police arrived. My daughter complained of neck pain, so the police encouraged me to go with her to the hospital as soon as possible. The three of us left with the Ambulance very quickly and was not able to participate in the police investigation at the scene. I also began to feel pain developing in the abdomen area.
• We arrived at the Cortland Regional Medical Center (134 Homer Ave, Cartland , NY 13045) at around 9:20 PM. When the hospital staff was attending to my daughter, my abdomen pain was getting more and more severe. I went to the washroom and was shocked that I had been bleeding. I immediately noticed hospital staff. After a series of tests, the doctor told me that they did not detect any heart beat from the fetus. I was totally shocked because I just had a medical check-up with my family doctor and was told that the fetus was growing and was healthy. I pleaded with them to try again but the result turned out to be the same.
• The police arrived at the hospital after 11 PM, telling me that my car had been towed away and gave me a traffic ticket. Stricken with sorrow of losing my baby, I was overwhelmed by the news. I was forced off the road and hit by the truck and was now accused as the culprit. Shocked and grieved, I left the hospital, not accepting that the baby had died.
• I took the bus with my husband and daughter and headed to New York City. I was bleeding heavily along the way. When the bus arrived at the Bus Terminal, I had lost consciousness and was later brought to the Hospital by police.
• They perform an operation on me, aborting the fetus (see Picture 5).
• However, the bleeding continued, though more mildly than before.
• I was scheduled to fly back to Canada on Aug. 19, but fainted at the counter due to heavy blood loss.
• I was brought to the Hospital emergency department, rested for a few hours and released later that day.
• I successfully board the plane to Canada on Aug 20 and was transferred to North York Generally Hospital (NYGH) immediately upon my arrival.
• Ultrasound images showed that the abortion procedure done on Aug 16 failed to clean up the uterus, leaving behind some tissues, causing non-stop bleeding.
• I was operated at late Aug. 21 and was released from NYGH on Aug 22. After the operation at NYGH, the bleeding has finally stopped.
• After suffering the impacts of the accident and the emotional trauma of losing my unborn child, I suffered a prolong period of blood loss and two operations. I was simply too weak to travel to the court to answer the charge against me.
The charge “failure to use designated lane” perhaps refers to the fact that I had been driving on the shoulder. I was forced to the shoulder because the Tractor trailer truck began to move to my lane. Trying to save myself and my family from the truck, I instinctively moved to the left and onto the shoulder. I had no choice. I believed the truck driver somehow failed to notice that I had been driving on the passing lane. By the time he felt me, in hitting the front passenger side, he tried to pull away quickly, causing his trailer to hit the rear section of my car

I have diagramed the sequence of the events in Picture 6.

The police told me at the Cortland Regional Medical Centre that there were a few “witnesses” giving support to the present charge against me. But the fact of the matter is, there were really no “eye-witnesses” of the accident at all. There were no cars behind us at the time of the accident. Otherwise we would have been hit by them. By the time the first witness arrived a few minutes later, the events of the impact had already unfolded. They could only be witness to the aftermath of the accident, not to the accident itself.

Therefore, the only reliable “witness” to the accident is the damage sustained by my car. The light damage on the left front passenger side panel and the severe damage at the rear end were consistent with the series of events presented here.

I urge, you, Your Honor, to carefully consider the account presented here and declare my innocence.

Yours Sincerely,





















Picture 1: Showing front right side damage







Picture 2: Showing Right side front and rear damage



Picture 3: Showing severe Right side Rear end damage



Picture 4: Showing rear end being chopped off

Picture 5: My Baby





























Picture 6: The sequences of the Event

 

[sob1976]

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Cortlandville Town Court
3577 Terrace Road
Cortland
NY 13045

Aug. 23, 2013.

Dear Honorable Judge,
...

Good luck!

 

[CanChn]

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Cortlandville Town Court
3577 Terrace Road
Cortland
NY 13045

Aug. 23, 2013.

Dear Honorable Judge,

I regret that I could not appear in person to answer to the charge against me at 8:50 PM on Aug. 15, 2013 (3C23237GWM). I suffered severe personal and emotional trauma after the accident and was unfit to travel to the Court on Aug. 26, 2013. I have chosen to submit my plea of Not Guilty in writing.

First, let me give a detailed account of the event unfolded at the evening of Aug. 15, 2013.

• Around 8:30 PM, Aug. 15, 2013, I was driving on Hwy 81, heading toward New York City. My husband was sitting on the front passenger seat, while my daughter, Angela, was sitting in her car seat on the left and rear passenger seat.
• In that section of Hwy 81, the road was a divided highway, separated by guard rails. The road has two lanes, a right lane and a left passing lane.
• I had been following a tractor trailer truck on the right lane. The truck was driving slowly so I decided to pull out to the passing lane to pass.
• As I was driving alongside the truck, I noticed that the truck was beginning to move over to the left lane. I was forced to move left to stay away from the truck.
• Seconds later the truck had completely moved over to the passing lane and had forced my car onto the shoulder.
• The road began to take a slight curve to the right and the shoulder also narrowed. The truck pressed against my car on the front passenger side panel (See Picture 1). Then the trailer section of the truck hit the right real side of my car, causing my car to hit the guard rail 3 to 4 times before it came to a stop.
• The rear right side of my car suffered the most severe damage (see Pictures 2 & 3). It was as if the whole rear section was chopped off (see Picture 4). We were lucky to be alive because of the guard rail and the fact that there were no cars behind us.
• About a few minutes after the accident, a few cars passed by the scene of the accident. Some decided to stop to help. Someone called 911 and soon the police arrived. My daughter complained of neck pain, so the police encouraged me to go with her to the hospital as soon as possible. The three of us left with the Ambulance very quickly and was not able to participate in the police investigation at the scene. I also began to feel pain developing in the abdomen area.
• We arrived at the Cortland Regional Medical Center (134 Homer Ave, Cartland , NY 13045) at around 9:20 PM. When the hospital staff was attending to my daughter, my abdomen pain was getting more and more severe. I went to the washroom and was shocked that I had been bleeding. I immediately noticed hospital staff. After a series of tests, the doctor told me that they did not detect any heart beat from the fetus. I was totally shocked because I just had a medical check-up with my family doctor and was told that the fetus was growing and was healthy. I pleaded with them to try again but the result turned out to be the same.
• The police arrived at the hospital after 11 PM, telling me that my car had been towed away and gave me a traffic ticket. Stricken with sorrow of losing my baby, I was overwhelmed by the news. I was forced off the road and hit by the truck and was now accused as the culprit. Shocked and grieved, I left the hospital, not accepting that the baby had died.
• I took the bus with my husband and daughter and headed to New York City. I was bleeding heavily along the way. When the bus arrived at the Bus Terminal, I had lost consciousness and was later brought to the Hospital by police.
• They perform an operation on me, aborting the fetus (see Picture 5).
• However, the bleeding continued, though more mildly than before.
• I was scheduled to fly back to Canada on Aug. 19, but fainted at the counter due to heavy blood loss.
• I was brought to the Hospital emergency department, rested for a few hours and released later that day.
• I successfully board the plane to Canada on Aug 20 and was transferred to North York Generally Hospital (NYGH) immediately upon my arrival.
• Ultrasound images showed that the abortion procedure done on Aug 16 failed to clean up the uterus, leaving behind some tissues, causing non-stop bleeding.
• I was operated at late Aug. 21 and was released from NYGH on Aug 22. After the operation at NYGH, the bleeding has finally stopped.
• After suffering the impacts of the accident and the emotional trauma of losing my unborn child, I suffered a prolong period of blood loss and two operations. I was simply too weak to travel to the court to answer the charge against me.
The charge “failure to use designated lane” perhaps refers to the fact that I had been driving on the shoulder. I was forced to the shoulder because the Tractor trailer truck began to move to my lane. Trying to save myself and my family from the truck, I instinctively moved to the left and onto the shoulder. I had no choice. I believed the truck driver somehow failed to notice that I had been driving on the passing lane. By the time he felt me, in hitting the front passenger side, he tried to pull away quickly, causing his trailer to hit the rear section of my car

I have diagramed the sequence of the events in Picture 6.

The police told me at the Cortland Regional Medical Centre that there were a few “witnesses” giving support to the present charge against me. But the fact of the matter is, there were really no “eye-witnesses” of the accident at all. There were no cars behind us at the time of the accident. Otherwise we would have been hit by them. By the time the first witness arrived a few minutes later, the events of the impact had already unfolded. They could only be witness to the aftermath of the accident, not to the accident itself.

Therefore, the only reliable “witness” to the accident is the damage sustained by my car. The light damage on the left front passenger side panel and the severe damage at the rear end were consistent with the series of events presented here.

I urge, you, Your Honor, to carefully consider the account presented here and declare my innocence.

Yours Sincerely,



Picture 1: Showing front right side damage

Picture 2: Showing Right side front and rear damage

Picture 3: Showing severe Right side Rear end damage

Picture 4: Showing rear end being chopped off

Picture 5: My Baby


Picture 6: The sequences of the Event

这是律师写的信吗？看起来不象。红字部分经不住推敲
１，failure to use designated lane 显然不是指＂I had been driving on the shoulder. ＂
２，你没有看到周围有车而证人证明他（们）看到了车祸发生过程，更说明你没有观察好周围的情况
３，无法到庭可以写信推迟，但不要缺席。想靠这样一封信就让法官同情你作出有利于你的判决基本上是不可能的。大家都在传说一个说法，要打掉罚单，只要到时候警察缺席没到庭，那么罚单自然就打掉了。我没上过庭不知道真假，但既然有这说法，应不是空穴来风。
建议：写信推迟开庭时间，好好调养身体，找靠谱的律师咨询再决定如何应对。

 

[sob1976]

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这是律师写的信吗？看起来不象。红字部分经不住推敲
１，failure to use designated lane 显然不是指＂I had been driving on the shoulder. ＂
２，你没有看到周围有车而证人证明他（们）看到了车祸发生过程，更说明你没有观察好周围的情况
３，无法到庭可以写信推迟，但不要缺席。想靠这样一封信就让法官同情你作出有利于你的判决基本上是不可能的。大家都在传说一个说法，要打掉罚单，只要到时候警察缺席没到庭，那么罚单自然就打掉了。我没上过庭不知道真假，但既然有这说法，应不是空穴来风。
建议：写信推迟开庭时间，好好调养身体，找靠谱的律师咨询再决定如何应对。

哎...LZ她到今天为止仍然不明白主要问题;由她发出这封信找死吧!

 

[B-a-King]

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• In that section of Hwy 81, the road was a divided highway, separated by guard rails. The road has two lanes, a right lane and a left passing lane.

This is not true as I check the google satellite near Cortland, hwy81 has two roadways separated by a median, not just by rails.

 

[B-a-King]

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哎...LZ她到今天为止仍然不明白主要问题;由她发出这封信找死吧!

especially here:

The road began to take a slight curve to the right and the shoulder also narrowed.

 

[Kartzchen]

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LZ还是没有明白什么叫高速公路弯道不能超车的道理，大家都白说了。这抗辩书写的实在无语，一看就是不懂交规的。看法官怎么判吧。

 

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LZ还是没有明白什么叫高速公路弯道不能超车的道理，大家都白说了。这抗辩书写的实在无语，一看就是不懂交规的。看法官怎么判吧。

牧师帮我写的经过，我也不知道自己该怎么做？我也后悔自己开车去美国的错误，但是事情已经发生无法挽救。请问我该怎么做？即使知道自己身体不允许，但是也不能缺席不去啊！我有什么选择的余地吗?

 

[sob1976]

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牧师帮我写的经过，我也不知道自己该怎么做？我也后悔自己开车去美国的错误，但是事情已经发生无法挽救。请问我该怎么做？即使知道自己身体不允许，但是也不能缺席不去啊！我有什么选择的余地吗?

是找律师,不是找牧师!!!