像重复提醒多次还没记住(像穿过的袜子没有扔进洗衣篮，在哪儿脱就放哪儿)，我会说“I got upset because I told you many times, you still did not do what I asked, that was why my tone was not nice."
然后他们会说“ i am sorry, you still love us no matter what, right?" 我："yeah,I do."
if a child can do advanced math, speaks 3 languages, or receives top grades,
but can not manage their emotion, practice conflict resolution, or handle stress, none of that other stuff is really going to matter.