善良的人啊，用宽容的心看待一切吧

[vickyzyd]

那是在中国的时候，刚刚跟我老公谈朋友，但是没有公开

一次工作的时候中午午休，大家都到公司附近的一个餐馆吃饭，一个很简单的像食堂一样的地方。老公他是一个不喜欢计较的人，他把我们带到食堂跟我们一起在那里吃，然后他为所有的人，包括操作工付钱，他说我的费用可以报销，他们不可以

在吃饭期间，有一个中国工程师就在我老公手下干的，他当着大家的面骂我老公，但是老公听不懂中国话，看着大家都在笑，他也只是傻笑，我心里很不是滋味，但是我们的关系没有公开，我也不好说什么。过后我也没有跟老公说，因为我不知道会不会影响他工作的情绪，毕竟他们天天工作在一起，他把他当成是好朋友。。

过了很长时间，我和老公快要结婚了。老公还是一味的对那个工程师很好，但是也很严格，因为他在培训他，后来我突然想起这件事，觉得很心疼，就委婉的跟老公说，再以后有人要是这么这么说你"1111"（对我老公来说就是一些发音），这是很不礼貌的，这样的人不是好人。老公是个很敏锐的人，他立即说那天那个工程师就这么说来着，我说我不记得了，但是你得知道什么是好人，什么是坏人，

他想了想跟我说：因为我是他的上司，可能有的时候我的严格，让他对我不满，不过谁都会有拿自己的老板开玩笑的时候，他还很年轻，经历不多，多工作几年就好了

在以后的工作中，他对他丝毫没有改变，现在他们真得成了朋友

这就是我最爱的老公

善良的人啊，用宽容的心对待一切吧

 

[poorguy8]

回头聊.俺睡了........再见.

 

[taotao]

看发展!啊----

 

[真榕]

哈哈，善良宽容的，都盖楼来了。

 

[longforcanada]

可惜我昨天没赶上，只好今天才来回看。。。：（

 

[果果宝宝]

性情中人
打错字了，老公电脑的输入法我老用不好。

 

[Aim]

霹雳同学：看你也是个经过世面之人，怎么这么过分，小女生阅历浅也不该招你这样奚落，你跟加拿大人有什么了不起的过节，要对一个追随爱情的女生穷追不舍。加拿大人善又怎样不善又怎样， 那些以偏盖全的论点看过笑过就罢了，你还真把他们当回事，到处地抨击。年轻人幼稚可以原谅，难道你也幼稚？

还有房梁，一唱一喝的，原以为你好歹也是个性清之人，看错你了。

霹雳在家园本来是没有明显倾向性的，不过，在“逗闷子”心态下，变了。

 

[果果宝宝]

霹雳是针对没嫁给洋人，但有这个想法的中国人说的，和已经嫁了的无关啊。已经嫁了的晚了。
我和谁唱了还喝了？你是想说一唱一和吧？该死的错字，弄晕了我了。你能看对我吗？我可是不容易看透的。把我的所有贴都认真研究一遍再说吧。估计你还小呢。

霹雳自己出来说。

光唱不喝有什么劲，女人过了三十五，每天喝适量红酒好啊。

 

[philyuan]

a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

 

[vickyzyd]

a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

Totally agree, maybe I should not talk about my personal things here, and I never want to compare Chinese and Canadians, both are human, it is no meaning to compare.
I just told what I felt, the canadians in my life, the ones I have ever met are quite nice, and of course especially my husband, "Il est mon amour".
Just because another topic hurt my feeling a little bit. So it is a good leson for me, never talk about personal things on the net, not too late to know that, en?
Thanks .

 

[房 梁]

a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

[FONT=宋体]我倒是觉得能爱一个人，就好，不论他什么国籍，什么性别，所以我对同性恋也能保持接受的态度。异国恋根本就更没什么可谈论的，不必歧视也不必羡慕，不必诽谤也不必提倡。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]在乱爱（恋爱的谐音）这方面，我是很[/FONT]OPEN [FONT=宋体]的。[/FONT]
[FONT=宋体]对你开个玩笑。[/FONT] two people love each other and then make a family.[FONT=宋体]你这句话最后一个词应该改成[/FONT]LOVE [FONT=宋体]就显得更高级更没局限了。[/FONT]

 

[果果宝宝]

a story of a man and a woman, love and then family, this is nothing special. marry a canadian or chinese is a personal experience and a personal choice.

so i find nothing here to scold the lz for her marrying a canadian, and she is lucky to find a kind and tolerant canadian like this.

i forget a famous englishman's name, whose book chinese scientifical history is a cornerstone in this field, and earns a huge reputation for our country. in history, no chinese accomplished this , in defending our glorious history, and promoting our culture.
and sometimes, i think if he had not got a chinese wife, could he have accomplished this?

' la chose est simple, mais l'homme l'a compliquée' ( this is my own saying, meaning ' the thing is simple, but human being has complicated it.')

yeah, human nature is similar, it's ridiculous to say that canadians are much smarter than chinese or vice verca.

two people love each other and then make a family. that's it both in canada and in china.

if not, tell me the contrary.

如果要说道说道可就太长了，懒得打字。

 

[果果宝宝]

Totally agree, maybe I should not talk about my personal things here, and I never want to compare Chinese and Canadians, both are human, it is no meaning to compare.
I just told what I felt, the canadians in my life, the ones I have ever met are quite nice, and of course especially my husband, "Il est mon amour".
Just because another topic hurt my feeling a little bit. So it is a good leson for me, never talk about personal things on the net, not too late to know that, en?
Thanks .

你不是因为谈论个人隐私被攻击，你不会不明白吧 ？

 

[vickyzyd]

你不是因为谈论个人隐私被攻击，你不会不明白吧 ？

I know the root, but if I didn't tell them I have a canadian husband, then it won't be like this, do you understand?
What I have said will change sth. Wait a little bit, you will see

 

[Wonder]

不是吧，双子楼还嫌不够，非要凑成仨？

 

[Wonder]

那这个楼也得留下俺的汗水。。。

 

[vickyzyd]

那这个楼也得留下俺的汗水。。。

呵呵，这楼没打算盖多高，应该不会太高的，汗水流错地方了

 

[poorguy8]

霹雳自己出来说。

光唱不喝有什么劲，女人过了三十五，每天喝适量红酒好啊。

我要说的就是....房梁是雄纠纠的男子汉....

 

[poorguy8]

霹雳在家园本来是没有明显倾向性的，不过，在“逗闷子”心态下，变了。

不对...俺早就知道...房梁是雄纠纠的男子汉.....

 

[vickyzyd]

你没事侃英语干什么? 为了告诉大家你不是站街女? 有文化? 现在北京会英语的鸡多了去了.

还是讲母语最痛快...你天天跟老公,在桌边,在床头,讲英语还没讲够呀.....

哈哈

I speak English to avoid people like you, because people like you are too stupid to understand English, so you will be out of my talk, if you can, talk English to us, you said you had a canadian friend, didn't you? then you should be able to speak English with us, so ...talk, talk in English, with less ugly words