man! girl you started a serious topic, that is how come, HOW COME, so many locals have all sort of the psychological problem.
One example, ok, may not be a sample any more cause they now claim they are "normal", is homo phenomeno. I am not saying this is NONE but I do feel percentage wise here got more than back in China.
After many years thinking, I now feel the so called "Interest Oriented Education" is the one to blame.
As we all know, here the education principle here is saying you have to pursue what you are interested. It is very unlikely here to see teachers/parent try to correct your thinking, no matter how wild it can be. And some times they even encourage you to do so, despite how craze it is (for instance, 5 year self-claim "girl" with his mother full support)
This would lead people less likely to second guess his/her interest, not easy to be satisfied and not willing to sacrifice himself/herself.
As a result, people grow up here have quickly running out of joyness from normal activity and only those really abnormal or over the limit activity can satisfy those "eagering" mind.
If drug is not the answer, then cross line sex is.
I have writing so much, has it proves my ability to judge your conclusion in terms of understanding your Ex english?
He used it perfectly and efficiently and your understood it perfectly.
He is sick and you made a good decision.