淡淡爹淡淡妈写给淡淡的关于淡淡同性恋的一封信

[北京范德彪]

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那啥在我们那儿还有点可能，在加拿大你再活十辈子都是狂想

这儿满街都是2b怎么弄啊

 

[五星枫旗]

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想改造你，首先必须让你沮丧。看来难度很大你真的有“神”的潜质
改天再找机会相信有那么一天你一定会回到正常人中间来，对此我深信不疑

如果你还没来加拿大，那就不要来了。如果已经在这里，不管你是怎么溜过来的，坚决支持Kenney 同志把你踢回去。

 

[tony127]

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淡淡吾儿：
为了能在老的事情享天伦之乐，我和你妈决定给你生一个弟妹！

 

[0706]

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忍不住谈几点感想：

1 LZSB

2 所有在这里设身处地当别人爹妈的，祝福你们为自己增加了经验值

3 这位童鞋，我第一次知道 弟妹 这种亲戚是亲爹妈生出来的

淡淡吾儿：
为了能在老的事情享天伦之乐，我和你妈决定给你生一个弟妹！

 

[0706]

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假如明天早晨这个贴还在这儿，
我去跟版主申请删除，

支持

 

[上来看看]

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如果你还没来加拿大，那就不要来了。如果已经在这里，不管你是怎么溜过来的，坚决支持Kenney 同志把你踢回去。

我倒认为加拿大有你这种人才是一种悲哀。

 

[Michelle Libra]

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假如你是淡淡爹或者淡淡妈，请写给淡淡一封信，谈谈关于你身为父/母，怎样看待和面对淡淡的同性恋，怎样建议淡淡在家园这样一个同性恋占少数的论坛里生活

请注意你写这封信的时候是以淡淡的父亲或者母亲的身份，冷嘲热讽谩骂讥笑无法体现你做人善良的一面，请表现出父母对淡淡的爱和关切

建议字数不少于200不多于500

 

[爱抽烟的帅哥]

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忍不住谈几点感想：

1 LZSB

2 所有在这里设身处地当别人爹妈的，祝福你们为自己增加了经验值

3 这位童鞋，我第一次知道 弟妹 这种亲戚是亲爹妈生出来的

那是简称，弟or妹

 

[上来看看]

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支持

都不好意思说你和sabre这些人，这么大人了。

是英语在用先发投票帖假设众人如果有个孩子怎么样怎么样，明摆着是他先踩了论坛不论及家人的底限。

那种帖子没看到你和sabre去喷他，这会儿却装个伪道士窜来窜去，省省吧你

 

[不可得]

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都不好意思说你和sabre这些人，这么大人了。

是英语在用先发投票帖假设众人如果有个孩子怎么样怎么样，明摆着是他先踩了论坛不论及家人的底限。

那种帖子没看到你和sabre去喷他，这会儿却装个伪道士窜来窜去，省省吧你

你写的挺解恨的，这次我支持你一把。这好比有人跪着求人家揍他一顿，结果别人揍了他，揍人的人虽然不对，也是因为那个人欠揍。

 

[上来看看]

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这次我支持你一把。

上次和下次为什么不支持我？

 

[flowing_water]

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Hi, my dear Saughter,


I am glad that you have decided to start a new life exploration. Unfortunately, I am too old. Your inspiration does not work for me. Recently I have a hard time. My bank has cut my credit line. Hence, there is my most important advice. Something is easy to cut, but difficult to re-connect. Take care!


Love from your Red and Green folks.

 

[BRASSEURS]

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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Dear Hypothetically Gay Son,[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You're gay. Obviously you already know that, because you told us at the dinner table last night. I apologize for the awkward silence afterwards, but I was chewing. It was like when we're at a restaurant and the waiter comes up mid-bite and asks how the meal is, only in this metaphor you are the waiter and instead of asking me about my meal you said you were gay. I don't know why I needed to explain that. I think I needed to find a funny way to repeat the fact that you're gay… because that is what it sounds like in my head right now. "My son is gay. My son is gay. My son is gay."[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Let me be perfectly clear. I love you. I will always love you. Since being gay is part of who you are, I love that you're gay. I'm just trying to wrap my head around the idea. If you sensed any sadness in my silence last night, it was because I was surprised that I was surprised. Ideally, I would have already known. Since you were an embryo, my intent has always been to really know you for who you are and not who I expect you to be. And yet, I was taken by surprise at last night's dinner. Have I said "surprise" enough in this paragraph? One more time... surprise![/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]OK. Let's get a few things straight about how things are going to be. [/FONT]

1. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Our home is a place of safety and love. The world has dealt you a difficult card. While LGBT people are becoming more accepted, it is still a difficult path to walk. You're going to experience hate and anger and misunderstandings about who you are out in the world. That will not happen here. You need to know with every fiber of who you are that when you walk in the front door of your home you are safe and you are loved. Your mother is in complete agreement with me on this.
   
   [/FONT]
2. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am still, as always, your biggest defender. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you're any less capable of taking care of/defending yourself. That said, if you need me to stand next to you, in front of you, write letters, sign petitions, advocate, or anything else, I am here. I will go to war for you.
   
   [/FONT]
3. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]If you're going to have boys over, you now need to leave your bedroom door open. Sorry kiddo. Thems are the breaks. I couldn't have girls in my room with the door shut, you don't get to have boys.
   [/FONT]
4. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You and I are going to revisit that talk we had about safe sex. I know it's going to be awkward for both of us, but it is important. I need to do some research first, so let's give it a few weeks. If you have questions or concerns before then, let me know. [/FONT]

[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]That's enough for now. Feel free to view this letter as a contract. If I ever fail to meet any of the commitments made herein, pull it out and hold me to account. I'll end with this: You are not broken. You are whole, and beautiful. You are capable and compassionate. You and your sister are the best things I have ever done with my life, and I couldn't be more proud of the people you've become.[/FONT]
[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
[/FONT]

 

[不可得]

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上次和下次为什么不支持我？

我一般就事论事，上次，不知在哪里，下次，如果你说的我不同意，我肯定拿砖拍，还捡个块大的，砸起来比较实在。

 

[爱抽烟的帅哥]

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[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Dear Hypothetically Gay Son,[/FONT]


[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You're gay. Obviously you already know that, because you told us at the dinner table last night. I apologize for the awkward silence afterwards, but I was chewing. It was like when we're at a restaurant and the waiter comes up mid-bite and asks how the meal is, only in this metaphor you are the waiter and instead of asking me about my meal you said you were gay. I don't know why I needed to explain that. I think I needed to find a funny way to repeat the fact that you're gay… because that is what it sounds like in my head right now. "My son is gay. My son is gay. My son is gay."[/FONT]


[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Let me be perfectly clear. I love you. I will always love you. Since being gay is part of who you are, I love that you're gay. I'm just trying to wrap my head around the idea. If you sensed any sadness in my silence last night, it was because I was surprised that I was surprised. Ideally, I would have already known. Since you were an embryo, my intent has always been to really know you for who you are and not who I expect you to be. And yet, I was taken by surprise at last night's dinner. Have I said "surprise" enough in this paragraph? One more time... surprise![/FONT]


[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]OK. Let's get a few things straight about how things are going to be. [/FONT]

1. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Our home is a place of safety and love. The world has dealt you a difficult card. While LGBT people are becoming more accepted, it is still a difficult path to walk. You're going to experience hate and anger and misunderstandings about who you are out in the world. That will not happen here. You need to know with every fiber of who you are that when you walk in the front door of your home you are safe and you are loved. Your mother is in complete agreement with me on this.[/FONT]
   
   
2. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I am still, as always, your biggest defender. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you're any less capable of taking care of/defending yourself. That said, if you need me to stand next to you, in front of you, write letters, sign petitions, advocate, or anything else, I am here. I will go to war for you.[/FONT]
   
   
3. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]If you're going to have boys over, you now need to leave your bedroom door open. Sorry kiddo. Thems are the breaks. I couldn't have girls in my room with the door shut, you don't get to have boys.[/FONT]
   
4. [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]You and I are going to revisit that talk we had about safe sex. I know it's going to be awkward for both of us, but it is important. I need to do some research first, so let's give it a few weeks. If you have questions or concerns before then, let me know. [/FONT]

[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]That's enough for now. Feel free to view this letter as a contract. If I ever fail to meet any of the commitments made herein, pull it out and hold me to account. I'll end with this: You are not broken. You are whole, and beautiful. You are capable and compassionate. You and your sister are the best things I have ever done with my life, and I couldn't be more proud of the people you've become.[/FONT]

whole or whore?

 

[taotao]

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其实没啥大不了的。人和几把都是自由的，爱MB干啥就干啥！

 

[Michelle Libra]

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有一天，这些都会过去的，想到这结果，我就欣慰……再怎么累死人的爱，再怎么累死人的恨，都会过去……失眠、被冤枉、塞车、太穷了，都会过去……被轻蔑、被迫说谎、被迫承认自己改变不了什么，或者，长得不好看，都会过去……――蔡康永

 

[fetmhx]

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假如明天早晨这个贴还在这儿，
我去跟版主申请删除，

进展如何？？？

 

[哆啦A梦]

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上帝说：蛋蛋无错，只是走了条与众不同的路。不许欺负老实人！

 

[fetmhx]

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上帝说：蛋蛋无错，只是走了条与众不同的路。不许欺负老实人！

大姐，不用您喊，其实蛋蛋强大的很