后来我再仔细问了儿子,儿子说这个白人小孩经常欺负华人孩子,他的许多伙伴都吃过亏。遇到这种情况我该怎么处理?
Probably he felt shame to get bitten like this. you kowe sometimes the kids are more tougher than we thought. when my son came to canada at 8 years old, the neighour kids bugged him a lot. I told him to fight back and I even helped him to do so. since then on, there were less bullying on him.
牛妈 。。。佩服!fight back. I would like to tell you what happened with my son when he was 8 years old. once one boy tried to hit my son with his bicyle, because I have been keeping an eye on my son when he played outside, I approached that boy silencly, the boy was scared trying to fleed. I hold his bicyle asking him what he was doing, the boy sure lied to me, so I kicked his bike and he felt down, meanwhile I told my son to kick his ass and told him not to bully again. since then that boy didn't bug my son anymore.
脸上的伤不是很厉害,腿上的伤指甲盖那么大,有破皮,据说是推他摔倒碰到的。儿子不是胆小的主,所以我一般比较放心。但这次的表现让我觉得异乎寻常,是不是刚移民两个多月,孩子心理有变化,觉得爸爸也保护不了他恩,他长大了,男孩子是这样的,小时候打架到打到大,我女儿班里有个女同学特别爱打人,华人,平常都没事儿,前几天打我闺女回来我告诉她下次再打你就盯着她大声说no,然后告诉老师处理,第二次她还打你就也回她,比她高比她壮怕什么!不过我女儿胆子小估计她也下不了手,每到这时候都特别无奈,不能天天跟着她,孩子长大了总要自己去面对一些事情,我理解你的心情,既然脸上都有伤说明打的很厉害。
fight back. I would like to tell you what happened with my son when he was 8 years old. once one boy tried to hit my son with his bicyle, because I have been keeping an eye on my son when he played outside, I approached that boy silencly, the boy was scared trying to fleed. I hold his bicyle asking him what he was doing, the boy sure lied to me, so I kicked his bike and he felt down, meanwhile I told my son to kick his ass and told him not to bully again. since then that boy didn't bug my son anymore.
他爸爸气愤的就是这个:受了欺负也不说,要是说的话,一定当场教训对方,让他下次再不敢了。事后再算帐好像不怎么妥当,而且儿子后来就是说如果他说了被欺负的事,再下次那个白人孩子会更欺负得他们更厉害
fight back. I would like to tell you what happened with my son when he was 8 years old. once one boy tried to hit my son with his bicyle, because I have been keeping an eye on my son when he played outside, I approached that boy silencly, the boy was scared trying to fleed. I hold his bicyle asking him what he was doing, the boy sure lied to me, so I kicked his bike and he felt down, meanwhile I told my son to kick his ass and told him not to bully again. since then that boy didn't bug my son anymore.