原来我写错了 backhanded 写成back hand了backhanded compliment
An insult disguised as a compliment
e.g. "No, honey...I love yours. I don't even like them big."
"Your haircut really slims your face."
(love those examples...)
Ha. maybe i'm a bit sarcastic but mean no harm.
你这个是一种解释
另外的一种 夸人的时候 带点损人的因素