I can't type in Chinese here, so just give my comments in English.
To begin with:
elizi's life goals with Martin here in Canada:
--relocate to big city, urban area, drag Martin far away from his current surroundings where everything is deeply loved by him and he comfortably lives with.
--part Martin's daughter, return that little annoying thing to her mother, then seize total attention and love from that poor young-kid's father.
--urge Martin pregnant her soon, despite how unwilling he is and how troublesome he would suffer .
--ban talking to any female except elizi herself.
Doooooooo you ever ever ever think that after all accomplishments for those goals , Martin wouldn't be himself anymore, he'll turn to another person. A person with everything elizi 's been pursuing. That means what elizi really loves isn't the actual Martin, minor of him right now has been appreciated by her. She just cann't wait to change Martin to another person, the person she's been really wanted to couple with.
I have a huge doubt with this marriage's authenticity. Do you marry the man you love or do you marry the possible benefits could been supplied behind this specific tie-up?
I cann't help speaking out : "how pathetic and how crafty you are !"
With my understanding,"love" means unconditional ,giving, tolerance and selfishness.
Since you appreciate almost nothing with him and don't respect his assets at all, why you been so appealing to him and deceived him that you did this out of your love not those ya underground "dirty missions"?
Now, he is your prey and you're free to frame him per your renovating plan and shamelessly tell people:" I'm entitled and I'm justified! "
wow, what a foul bitch you are!
马丁的计划
"如果志芳怀孕了,她在怀孕的期间我希望能与她呆在一起。我们讨论过生孩子,这是我们都想要的。"
我必须将这件事想清楚,因为当我离开中国的最后一次,有点沮丧的是我不能够告诉志芳什么时候我会回来的。至少这样,可以在我在这里的时候作出具体计划,当然,总有未知的因素将改变一切。 如果志芳怀孕了,她在怀孕的期间我希望能与她呆在一起。我们讨论过生孩子,这是我们都想要的。所以,如果有一个在不久的将来我们有孩子,我会写到我的博客中,我得想出一个办法来。
I want to figure this out, because when I left China the last time, it was a little frustrating to me to not be able to tell Zhifang when i would be back. At least this way, I can make concrete plans while I am there. Of course, there is always the unknown that will change everything. Should Zhifang get pregnant, I will want to be with her for much of the pregnancy. We have both discussed having children, and this is something we both want. So if there is a child in our near future, I will be back to writing in my blog, trying to figure this all out. Thursday, June 4, 2009
http://thechinesedumpling.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-make-plans.html
译注:马丁这么好,所以才引得LZ那么爱他,才会在被打入冷宫后还口口声声表白她情犹未绝。马丁这么好,众MM都看得心痒痒的,也是很自然的啦。
I can't type in Chinese here, so just give my comments in English.
To begin with:
elizi's life goals with Martin here in Canada:
--relocate to big city, urban area, drag Martin far away from his current surroundings where everything is deeply loved by him and he comfortably lives with.
--part Martin's daughter, return that little annoying thing to her mother, then seize total attention and love from that poor young-kid's father.
--urge Martin pregnant her soon, despite how unwilling he is and how troublesome he would suffer .
--ban talking to any female except elizi herself.
Doooooooo you ever ever ever think that after all accomplishments for those goals , Martin wouldn't be himself anymore, he'll turn to another person. A person with everything elizi 's been pursuing. That means what elizi really loves isn't the actual Martin, minor of him right now has been appreciated by her. She just cann't wait to change Martin to another person, the person she's been really wanted to couple with.
I have a huge doubt with this marriage's authenticity. Do you marry the man you love or do you marry the possible benefits could been supplied behind this specific tie-up?
I cann't help speaking out : "how pathetic and how crafty you are !"
With my understanding,"love" means unconditional ,giving, tolerance and selfishness.
Since you appreciate almost nothing with him and don't respect his assets at all, why you been so appealing to him and deceived him that you did this out of your love not those ya underground "dirty missions"?
Now, he is your prey and you're free to frame him per your renovating plan and shamelessly tell people:" I'm entitled and I'm justified! "
wow, what a foul bitch you are!
马丁的计划
"如果志芳怀孕了,她在怀孕的期间我希望能与她呆在一起。我们讨论过生孩子,这是我们都想要的。"
我必须将这件事想清楚,因为当我离开中国的最后一次,有点沮丧的是我不能够告诉志芳什么时候我会回来的。至少这样,可以在我在这里的时候作出具体计划,当然,总有未知的因素将改变一切。 如果志芳怀孕了,她在怀孕的期间我希望能与她呆在一起。我们讨论过生孩子,这是我们都想要的。所以,如果有一个在不久的将来我们有孩子,我会写到我的博客中,我得想出一个办法来。
I want to figure this out, because when I left China the last time, it was a little frustrating to me to not be able to tell Zhifang when i would be back. At least this way, I can make concrete plans while I am there. Of course, there is always the unknown that will change everything. Should Zhifang get pregnant, I will want to be with her for much of the pregnancy. We have both discussed having children, and this is something we both want. So if there is a child in our near future, I will be back to writing in my blog, trying to figure this all out. Thursday, June 4, 2009
http://thechinesedumpling.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-make-plans.html
译注:马丁这么好,所以才引得LZ那么爱他,才会在被打入冷宫后还口口声声表白她情犹未绝。马丁这么好,众MM都看得心痒痒的,也是很自然的啦。
从LZ的帖子看,马丁就是个屎,志芳就是个白痴,
从马丁的博客看,马丁是完美的,志芳是圣洁的。
所以,马丁可能是滩素质完美的大便,志芳则是个闪着圣洁光辉的白痴。
其他MM心是不是痒痒的我不太清楚,但是阁下明显是对马丁的完美素质动心了
schen, remember every time you quote something, you should clear yourself the cited incidence is true enough for the time being. Let's see what Martin said in his email of this thread 's head page. You should notice he said"I am not going to pretend that ours is a happy marriage. You can have a happy life in China, and I will live my life in Canada. We will not live our lives together. I will not have any operations to have children. "
so,pls does things logically, everybody here cann't be fooled easily as poor Martin.
My viewpoints in my last post based on the present situation, not the time elizi trapped her target. we've all known she is a multi-face witch, she changed her attitude once she became a hostess. That's why the newly-wed couple transferred to being hatred to each other.
if you can hardly think through things ethically, that doesn't means others are going after you. if your intention just are messing the truth up here, i think you aren't the one worth to talk to.
i know you kind of marriage-immigration agent, if you gonna gain trust from the potencial or in-service customes, shouldn't honesty and conscience be what you feature yourself with?
do i make myself clear? understand??????????????????????