完了,幸福感消失了,又开始郁闷了!

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楼主应该是典型中国人的心态,是不是?我妈是这样的人,老觉得自己特厉害,特能干,给别人忠告,别人总是不听,如何如何。我觉得其实是内心缺乏一种力量,我也说不清楚。反正我感觉自己内心缺乏一种力量。楼主的经历和烦恼我也有类似的经历。认同很多人的分析,但是改变很难。与其讲获胜,成功,脱颖而出,不如讲每天做自己热爱的事情,每天的成就感,其它的都无关紧要了呢。




哈,俺老娘也这样

一开篇楼主就叽歪什么“优越感”,搞笑啊。既然千里迢迢从中国来这个大农村了,为什么不能学得悠着点,享受点简单宁静的幸福呢?
 

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我妈是这样的人,老觉得自己特厉害,特能干,给别人忠告,别人总是不听,如何如何。我觉得其实是内心缺乏一种力量,我也说不清楚。反正我感觉自己内心缺乏一种力量。楼主的经历和烦恼我也有类似的经历。认同很多人的分析,但是改变很难。与其讲获胜,成功,脱颖而出,不如讲每天做自己热爱的事情,每天的成就感,其它的都无关紧要了呢。
They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.
 

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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.

can't agree anymore
 
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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.




嘿嘿,你的死党酒醉大娘不是玩命地找认同感么?说给她听滴? :wdb37:
 

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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.
对上了年纪的人可能不适用,老年人需要被需要,和信心无关,只是想体现自己活着还是有点价值:wdb2:
 

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对上了年纪的人可能不适用,老年人需要被需要,和信心无关,只是想体现自己活着还是有点价值:wdb2:
?是缺乏自信、缺乏安全感的?故。
每?人活著,都是有?值的,跟年??晷。
 
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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.
everybody needs validation, even God, look at churches at every corner of the streets,
what are churches, they are validation,
 
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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.
why people go to politics,
because they need validation, they need approval ratings, they look at the poll every second,

people compete at olympics, in business, singing and dancing, in movies, TVs,
everywhere, people compete, for money, for mates, for food, this is the nature of human being,
even here, people compete for eyeballs,
 

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@sabre,

你说的是对的,一个人几十年了,不可能改变性格,所以劝LZ的话基本没作用。


@霜岳,

你说的也是对的,事情本身是这么个事,道理也是这个道理,可是,都知道熬夜不好,这不都熬着么。


@楼主,

anyway,LZ的心态是越来越阳光了,也越来越胜任本职工作。

不过职场的事,本就是如此,没可能人人都爱雷蒙德。

多来论坛说说挺好。
 
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saber英文比我好多了。另外问问saber,好像你听歌也蛮多的,我最近有两首歌听不懂,解释解释,都是david guetta的sia唱的,一首是she wolf, 一首是titanium,尤其mv看不懂
 
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They say people with less confidence always do that because they need to be validated from others... they are seeking for validation/more attention from others. But a mature person won't feel upset for others' disagreement; they do not seek for extra attention or validation from others either.
but who is the first and who is later
 
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@sabre,

你说的是对的,一个人几十年了,不可能改变性格,所以劝LZ的话基本没作用。


@霜岳,

你说的也是对的,事情本身是这么个事,道理也是这个道理,可是,都知道熬夜不好,这不都熬着么。


@楼主,

anyway,LZ的心态是越来越阳光了,也越来越胜任本职工作。

不过职场的事,本就是如此,没可能人人都爱雷蒙德。

多来论坛说说挺好。
在下以为鹰哥所言最对
 

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你要说more, 不能说anymore,
more 是肯定,
anymore 是否定,

我少打了一个空格。本来想写的是can't agree any more.

不过这样貌似也不标准?:wdb2:
 

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