英语在用,很多东西表象就是表象。不一定能透过它看到一些什么深刻的本质。西人总的来说在manner上比中国人好一些。但是这只是表象。 I find them not sincere, which means they dont mean what they say. So dont take it too seriously when people say have a nice day, nice meeting you today. We will have dinner together sometime. They say it millions of times a day. They cant even remember whom they said it to.