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回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
今天收到一个很好的邮件，和各位分享：
Lessons of Life
There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.
The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.
The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.
The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.
He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are fulfilled.
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
今天收到一个很好的邮件，和各位分享：
Lessons of Life
There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away.
The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen.
The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.
The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.
The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.
The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree's life.
He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are fulfilled.
If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
借ABC的这个版面向大家拜个晚年！真的很喜欢这个帖子，也一直在关注中。大家在这里和睦相处，共同讨论由一个问题引申出来的更多的问题，带给我很多的启发。在来与不来之间，我有过太多次的犹豫，毕竟自己还是一个凡夫俗子，有太多的放不下，但这次回国后快刀斩乱麻的辞掉了工作，处理了手头上的部分事情（还有一些事情无法马上清理）后，在大年初二，国内还沉浸在一片节日的喜庆气氛中的时候飞离中国来到了卡城。我不知道这是不是像城城的爸爸所说的蜕变，但我知道像鹰一样开始肯定是个艰难的过程，我好像还没有做好准备就要面对了，在此也希望能够得到更多朋友的指导，希望尽快实现蜕变。
借ABC的这个版面向大家拜个晚年！真的很喜欢这个帖子，也一直在关注中。大家在这里和睦相处，共同讨论由一个问题引申出来的更多的问题，带给我很多的启发。在来与不来之间，我有过太多次的犹豫，毕竟自己还是一个凡夫俗子，有太多的放不下，但这次回国后快刀斩乱麻的辞掉了工作，处理了手头上的部分事情（还有一些事情无法马上清理）后，在大年初二，国内还沉浸在一片节日的喜庆气氛中的时候飞离中国来到了卡城。我不知道这是不是像城城的爸爸所说的蜕变，但我知道像鹰一样开始肯定是个艰难的过程，我好像还没有做好准备就要面对了，在此也希望能够得到更多朋友的指导，希望尽快实现蜕变。
回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
刚从老家过年回来。给大家拜个晚年！
刚从老家过年回来。给大家拜个晚年！
回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
是啊，如果为了孩子而来个人感觉很伟大，这是个大的命题，是为自己还是为孩子。一定要想清楚。当然，孩子中有我，我中有孩子。中国人有时太中庸，反而混淆不清了。
个人感觉，要非常清楚你来的目的，有人说，也有人是谁遇而安。。。。这要看自然造化了。
是最重要的，我认为，考虑我们自己。
楼主，说的太对了。
每种教育方式都有它的特点，实在难以区分。这是更加注重创造力，可是那里的各种旁门左道，大行其道，这方面，也不能说国内没想像力，而是创造力超强。哈。
春节快乐！
是啊，如果为了孩子而来个人感觉很伟大，这是个大的命题，是为自己还是为孩子。一定要想清楚。当然，孩子中有我，我中有孩子。中国人有时太中庸，反而混淆不清了。
个人感觉，要非常清楚你来的目的，有人说，也有人是谁遇而安。。。。这要看自然造化了。
是最重要的，我认为，考虑我们自己。
楼主，说的太对了。
每种教育方式都有它的特点，实在难以区分。这是更加注重创造力，可是那里的各种旁门左道，大行其道，这方面，也不能说国内没想像力，而是创造力超强。哈。
最后编辑: 2009-02-02
回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
没错，危机危机，危险中自有机会。所以，有公司破产，自有新公司冒出。有人破财，自有人发财。 物质守恒宇宙轮回。 我都一直在想趁这个机会是不是自己该干点什么。只是到现在还没想出个苗头。不过机会这东西很奇妙，苦苦奢求未必得，不定哪天突然就冒出来了，就看你有没有本事把它抓住。
,谢谢呀！
我一直很喜欢菊花，小时候，总在上学路上摘很多，然后放在书本上压成标本，放学路上摘一些回家养着。来到加拿大，尽管看到山花烂漫，但是这个初衷也没有改变。死板呀！
昨天晚上，房东来做客，谈起目前的经济状况，作为一个小老板的他说，这又是个很好的投资机会呢。因为我们目前租住的房子也是他当初在石油危机的时候低价购入的。
没错，危机危机，危险中自有机会。所以，有公司破产，自有新公司冒出。有人破财，自有人发财。 物质守恒宇宙轮回。 我都一直在想趁这个机会是不是自己该干点什么。只是到现在还没想出个苗头。不过机会这东西很奇妙，苦苦奢求未必得，不定哪天突然就冒出来了，就看你有没有本事把它抓住。
回复: 是否放弃中国的发展机会?
不是假象。中国老百姓有钱！为啥？因为中国老百姓知道存钱，危机不危机的总归要过日子消费吧，咱手里有钱该花还得花啊。
欧美老百姓不一样，靠借钱过日子，次贷危机了钱自然借不到了，那就得勒紧裤腰带了。
上班第一天听到同事议论说我们公司已正式宣布全球裁人4500。唉，看来狼真的是来了，之前没想到连我们这种轻易不裁员的公司也要迎着金融危机这个风口浪尖采取行动了。
不是假象。中国老百姓有钱！为啥？因为中国老百姓知道存钱，危机不危机的总归要过日子消费吧，咱手里有钱该花还得花啊。
欧美老百姓不一样，靠借钱过日子，次贷危机了钱自然借不到了，那就得勒紧裤腰带了。
上班第一天听到同事议论说我们公司已正式宣布全球裁人4500。唉，看来狼真的是来了，之前没想到连我们这种轻易不裁员的公司也要迎着金融危机这个风口浪尖采取行动了。
