木无规矩不成方圆,做父母的三观不正,便是将孩子未来置于危险当中。大陆的父母养子不教子,可能自己的价值观就不正确,财富不过三代自然也见怪不怪了
三观不正?什么是正确的三观?这个很需要讨论。给孩子选择生活的自由,让他们在挫折中学习和成长,还是订立家庭 by-law 保护孩子?这个就大有异议。
为了保护孩子不受西方自由社会的侵蚀,18个犹太家庭在郊区建立自己的社区 from scratch. 按照犹太律法制定社区 by-law.
Bylaws
In order to protect the community from what he perceived as the moral decay of the outside community, Rebbe Lowy put together a set of by-laws "to govern the behavior of all the residents" of Kiryas Tosh.
[7] To live in this community, residents need to abide by these by-laws.
- No book, newspaper, or magazine is permitted in the buildings of the community, unless their content is in conformity to strictly Orthodox Judaism.
- All male members of the community must attend religious services, three times per day, at the synagogue.
- No radio, television, record, or cassette is allowed in the buildings of the community.
- No members of the community may attend the cinema or be present at any theatrical performance under the penalty of immediate expulsion.
- All women residing in the community must dress in accordance with the Orthodox laws of modesty, as follows:
- All dresses must be at least four inches below the knees, no trousers or panty-hose may be worn by women and girls 3 years of age or older.
- Married women's hair must be completely covered in public, by a scarf or by a wig.
- It is forbidden for unrelated men and women to walk together in the street.
- Men and women must be separated by a wall (at least 7 feet high), when attending any gathering of a social or religious nature.
- All food consumed in the buildings of the community must conform to the dietary laws of the Code of Laws and be approved by the chief Rabbi or his second in command.
- No car may be driven by an unmarried man.
- The members must submit any interpersonal conflict to the arbitration of a rabbinical court.
- The Sabbath must be observed in strict conformity to Jewish law.
- Male members of the community must study the Torah and other religious texts for at least two hours a day.
Teachers of secular subjects who come into the community must follow guidelines of their own:
- All textbooks and literature to be used by the students in class or at home... must first be approved by the principal.
- No stencil or photo-copy of any other book may be used without approval.
- Students are not permitted to go to the public library nor is the teacher permitted to bring into the school, for the students, any such books.
- No newspaper or magazine may be read in school or hung up. Students are not permitted to read the above at home either.
- No records or tape may be used in the classroom without approval.
- No extra subjects, books, magazine supplement or other information which is not on the required curriculum of the school may be taught.
- For extra credit work or for class projects, students should not be told to write away for such material. The teacher should supply them with the material with approval.
- No discussion on boyfriends.
- No discussions of reproduction.
- No discussion about radio, television or movies.
- No discussion on religion.
- No discussion about Women's Liberation
- No homework on Thursdays.