我还真没有队友不队友的概念。我个人讲究真实,追求真实,分享真实,和同样有真挚的感想的女网友儿比较聊得来,就像这个楼里的绝大多数女网友儿,你看我从上这个网的那一天到现在,有什么本质不一样的地方儿吗?
我对我不喜欢的女网友也很真实,以前看她们做事情的程度来表达我不同的厌恶程度。现在非常简单的定义,我不会和我不喜欢的女网友有任何交集,我就当她们永不存在,绝不会主动去说或者评论她们的任何行为,无论好坏。
因为在我眼里根本就没有她们,就这样儿简单明了。
所以我们按这个简单定义用现在的标准看,这里的大家都聊得很好很开心,也没有什么职业妈咪小姐类说话,勾搭暧昧类挑逗(人家认为那叫调侃,大家教育不一样,不奇怪)来这里,很干净很好,我们可以高兴的分享知识和音乐和生活给同样干净而高兴的人们。
小红突然这样说话我作为她的长辈很不开心。但是同样是长辈的ABX和啊呜已经委婉表达了他们的建议,我觉得我不需要画蛇添足了,要不然好像有某些人希望的穷追不舍的嫌疑,有些阴沟儿里的中指已经等不及了。
咱们都是聊得来的好网友儿,但不是队友,我现在基本不按纯政治观点站队。
要真说站队,那我站有基本人品,有修养知识,有趣且不装不撒谎一直表里如一上网的女网友儿的队,永远站。
雇个司机也不错After serious reflection, I will ban myself from driving.
1. take public transportation
2. have a car pool with someone
3. have a driver
4. buy another place close to my work
Which one is more practical and economical? Of course the first option is. However, it is not comfortable and takes more time.
这都什么乱七八糟的?还这么多选择。看来你这个就是没有任何真正反省。After serious reflection, I will ban myself from driving.
1. take public transportation
2. have a car pool with someone
3. have a driver
4. buy another place close to my work
Which one is more practical and economical? Of course the first option is. However, it is not comfortable and takes more time.
有个建议,请正规的教车教练坐身边,开个几次,再一次审视自己的规则习惯,从一个初心者0出发,会发现自己的一些旧习惯需要改变。这都什么乱七八糟的?还这么多选择。看来你这个就是没有任何真正反省。
你需要人生的自由,人生的自由在这里就是车,必不可少,那是必需品不是奢侈品。
有问题解决问题不是逃避。开车习惯不好那就改习惯就好了,多注意细节就好了,不要超速或者分心就好了,多大的事儿啊?
用这一点儿努力换来自己的自由和不用换房子,不用等别人,不用靠别人不好吗?我和小兔儿一起的时候,都是我开车、她从来不摸方向盘,无论这个距离是多远,甚至我们一次都是上万公里的出行。
可我不在她身边儿的时候,她照样儿自己开着自己喜欢的宝马比我开的火,开的快,但是也很稳当,这就是她告诉我的,要自己的自由,我给她,她能自己做好。
同样你也一样,不是自己不能,而是自己不愿,想逃避,没意义。好好改开车习惯就一劳永逸,而不是从此不开。那你老公和儿子有事情真需要你的时候,你能顶的住吗?
这才是关键,真需要你的时候,你要有能力扛起全家、开车是必须的基本要求。
5. Extremely seriously road test.After serious reflection, I will ban myself from driving.
1. take public transportation
2. have a car pool with someone
3. have a driver
4. buy another place close to my work
Which one is more practical and economical? Of course the first option is. However, it is not comfortable and takes more time.
Well I took bus to work before, my wife took bus to work far away for couple of years before she get driver's licence.After serious reflection, I will ban myself from driving.
1. take public transportation
2. have a car pool with someone
3. have a driver
4. buy another place close to my work
Which one is more practical and economical? Of course the first option is. However, it is not comfortable and takes more time.