ME到了，孩子要不要？

[Humboldt]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

建议先咨询办过移民的朋友、律师、还有体检中心等，再做决定。中介的话仅作参考，毕竟不是权威。

而且目前您未登陆Canada，是不是那里就一定是所期望和想象中的天堂呢？还是觉得婚姻和孩子相对重要，毕竟一家人健康快乐的生活是最重要的；如果光是为了登陆加拿大而牺牲了婚姻和孩子，你觉得到时候是否会后悔当初的决定呢？

好像是好的人说，CIC可以对怀孕的女同志豁免体检的，建议lz赶紧打听一下

 

[camondan]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

按楼主的身体情况，孩子一定要！
不需要其它理由了！
注：偶是男的！

 

[cicizhou]

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查了一下，给Newcomer参考

“ 孕期勿忘辐射线危害
辐射线是目前已知最会影响胎儿的环境因素。广义的辐射线指任何携带能量的波型，包含放射线(例如在医院所做的一些诊断性的X光、核子检查、作为治疗用的放射性碘或辐射屋)、宇宙射线(外层空间来的波、紫外线等)、微波、超音波(如洗牙等治疗用或诊断用)、电磁波(如大哥大、电磁炉)。

环境中一定有或多或少的辐射线，因为宇宙射线无处不在，但放射线如X光会伤害分裂中的细胞大家已有概念，例如我们知道高剂量的放射线可能对胎儿的影响，包括胎死腹中、畸形、智障、白血病、肿瘤(如甲状腺癌)，但是这些辐射线的影响与它的强度及接触的时间呈正相关；如剂量低、接触时间短，那么胎儿所受到的影响就很小，所以怀孕的妇女应该要知道，自己接触到哪些辐射线及接触的时间。

举例来说，在怀孕中照了多少X光，孕妇应该主动了解自己所照的是哪一种X光、总共照了几张，也可以记录一共接触到多少辐射线。研究认为，如果怀孕过程中接触到5个雷得(radiation absorbed dose指放射线的计量单位，简称rad )的量，相当于照20张腹部X光片或2次的骨盆计算机断层，此种剂量下将来胎儿异常的机会将增加四成。若这种接触在怀孕8周内，容易形成骨骼系统之异常如头部过小，其它之异常则包括泌尿系统和眼睛，若发生在8周之后则易有智力障碍，因此在接受放射线和核子检查时要特别注意。”

http://www.xsjk.net/jkzl/jdhk/2008/6...FK215I3I3.html

 

[cicizhou]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

查了一下，给Newcomer参考

“ 孕期勿忘辐射线危害
辐射线是目前已知最会影响胎儿的环境因素。广义的辐射线指任何携带能量的波型，包含放射线(例如在医院所做的一些诊断性的X光、核子检查、作为治疗用的放射性碘或辐射屋)、宇宙射线(外层空间来的波、紫外线等)、微波、超音波(如洗牙等治疗用或诊断用)、电磁波(如大哥大、电磁炉)。

环境中一定有或多或少的辐射线，因为宇宙射线无处不在，但放射线如X光会伤害分裂中的细胞大家已有概念，例如我们知道高剂量的放射线可能对胎儿的影响，包括胎死腹中、畸形、智障、白血病、肿瘤(如甲状腺癌)，但是这些辐射线的影响与它的强度及接触的时间呈正相关；如剂量低、接触时间短，那么胎儿所受到的影响就很小，所以怀孕的妇女应该要知道，自己接触到哪些辐射线及接触的时间。

举例来说，在怀孕中照了多少X光，孕妇应该主动了解自己所照的是哪一种X光、总共照了几张，也可以记录一共接触到多少辐射线。研究认为，如果怀孕过程中接触到5个雷得(radiation absorbed dose指放射线的计量单位，简称rad )的量，相当于照20张腹部X光片或2次的骨盆计算机断层，此种剂量下将来胎儿异常的机会将增加四成。若这种接触在怀孕8周内，容易形成骨骼系统之异常如头部过小，其它之异常则包括泌尿系统和眼睛，若发生在8周之后则易有智力障碍，因此在接受放射线和核子检查时要特别注意。”

http://www.xsjk.net/jkzl/jdhk/2008/6...FK215I3I3.html

 

[cicizhou]

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不放心中国有些不合格专家的解释，查了查国外的，Is it safe to have an X-ray during pregnancy?

Written for BabyCentre UK
The BabyCentre Editorial Team answers:

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It depends on the type of X-ray you need and exactly how much radiation you're going to be exposed to. The greater your exposure to radiation, the greater the risk to your baby. Most diagnostic X-rays (dental X-rays, for example) do not expose the fetus to high enough levels of radiation to cause a problem. While fetal exposure over 10 rads (the unit of measurement for absorbed radiation) has been shown to increase the risks for learning disabilities and eye abnormalities, you needn't worry. It's rare for a diagnostic X-ray to exceed 5 rads.

For example, the amount of radiation that a baby gets from a mother's dental X-ray is only 0.01 millirad. Since a rad is equal to 1,000 millirads, one would have to have 100,000 dental X-rays for the baby to receive just one rad. Other estimated fetal doses are 60 millirads for a chest X-ray, 290 millirads for an abdominal X-ray, and 800 millirads for a computerised tomographic (CT) scan. For perspective, during the normal course of pregnancy your baby is exposed to about 100 millirads of natural radiation from the sun and earth.

Although the risk from diagnostic X-rays is low, experts often recommend that women postpone getting unnecessary X-rays until after giving birth. However, if your doctor feels X-rays are needed for your particular medical situation, it may ease your mind to know that the amount of radiation your baby will receive will most likely be well within the safe range. On the day of the test, make sure the radiographer knows that you are pregnant so she can properly shield you.

If you're around radiation at work, talk to your supervisor about ways to reduce or eliminate your exposure. You may want to discuss the possibility of wearing a special kind of film badge that monitors the amount of radiation you receive. Such badges can be analysed periodically to make sure you and the baby are safe. If you're concerned that your employer isn't addressing safety issues, contact the Health and Safety Executive, the government agency responsible for overseeing safety in the workplace.

If you were receiving radiation for cancer therapy before learning you were pregnant, talk to your oncologist about the amount of radiation your baby may have received, and ask for a referral to a genetic counsellor and for a detailed ultrasound of the baby.

http://www.babycenter.com.au/pregnancy/isitsafeto/xrayduringpregexpert/


found out I'm pregnant after I had an X-ray. What should I do now?
You don't really need to do anything. The risk to your baby from radiation is so small that most doctors would treat your pregnancy just like any other pregnancy. If you're really worried about your baby's risk, a radiation physicist can figure out exactly how much radiation your baby has been exposed to. Usually, an unborn baby shouldn't be exposed to more than 5 rad. Because most x-rays cause much less radiation than this, talk with your doctor to see if it will even help to find out the exact number of rads your baby was exposed to.

更多解释：http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/pregnancy/fetal/373.html

 

[晚秋枫叶]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

不放心中国有些不合格专家的解释，查了查国外的，Is it safe to have an X-ray during pregnancy?

Written for BabyCentre UK
The BabyCentre Editorial Team answers:

* Send to a friendSend to a friend
* Printable versionPrintable version
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It depends on the type of X-ray you need and exactly how much radiation you're going to be exposed to. The greater your exposure to radiation, the greater the risk to your baby. Most diagnostic X-rays (dental X-rays, for example) do not expose the fetus to high enough levels of radiation to cause a problem. While fetal exposure over 10 rads (the unit of measurement for absorbed radiation) has been shown to increase the risks for learning disabilities and eye abnormalities, you needn't worry. It's rare for a diagnostic X-ray to exceed 5 rads.

For example, the amount of radiation that a baby gets from a mother's dental X-ray is only 0.01 millirad. Since a rad is equal to 1,000 millirads, one would have to have 100,000 dental X-rays for the baby to receive just one rad. Other estimated fetal doses are 60 millirads for a chest X-ray, 290 millirads for an abdominal X-ray, and 800 millirads for a computerised tomographic (CT) scan. For perspective, during the normal course of pregnancy your baby is exposed to about 100 millirads of natural radiation from the sun and earth.

Although the risk from diagnostic X-rays is low, experts often recommend that women postpone getting unnecessary X-rays until after giving birth. However, if your doctor feels X-rays are needed for your particular medical situation, it may ease your mind to know that the amount of radiation your baby will receive will most likely be well within the safe range. On the day of the test, make sure the radiographer knows that you are pregnant so she can properly shield you.

If you're around radiation at work, talk to your supervisor about ways to reduce or eliminate your exposure. You may want to discuss the possibility of wearing a special kind of film badge that monitors the amount of radiation you receive. Such badges can be analysed periodically to make sure you and the baby are safe. If you're concerned that your employer isn't addressing safety issues, contact the Health and Safety Executive, the government agency responsible for overseeing safety in the workplace.

If you were receiving radiation for cancer therapy before learning you were pregnant, talk to your oncologist about the amount of radiation your baby may have received, and ask for a referral to a genetic counsellor and for a detailed ultrasound of the baby.

http://www.babycenter.com.au/pregnancy/isitsafeto/xrayduringpregexpert/


found out I'm pregnant after I had an X-ray. What should I do now?
You don't really need to do anything. The risk to your baby from radiation is so small that most doctors would treat your pregnancy just like any other pregnancy. If you're really worried about your baby's risk, a radiation physicist can figure out exactly how much radiation your baby has been exposed to. Usually, an unborn baby shouldn't be exposed to more than 5 rad. Because most x-rays cause much less radiation than this, talk with your doctor to see if it will even help to find out the exact number of rads your baby was exposed to.

更多解释：http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/pregnancy/fetal/373.html

 

[水是醒着的冰]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

爬了好多层楼终于看到楼主做出了正确决定 放心了

 

[iamcoming]

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做出决定就好了
楼主还是安心养胎吧，祝福你

 

[terror79]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

归根究底是一个钱字，可怜的bb

 

[北京的风很大]

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让人怀疑你是不是学医的。
说出的话根外行一样，没有一点医学常识似的，仿佛是道听途说的。

说重了也别生气，真想说：哀其不幸怒其不争。

女人啊，用脑子思考一下吧，别只会用屁股思考。

 

[007leo]

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老公家里有1个哥哥两个弟弟。哥哥去年刚生了1个儿子，所以老公的父母说：
“不需要我们传宗接代，到加拿大去每月邮点钱就算孝敬了。“

你公婆哪里人氏啊？真他妈自私

 

[可可]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

额,我不是很懂医哈,但是这年头打胎的太多了，也没见几个不孕的啊,不要搞得一打就怀不上似的.
而且楼主自己都说了,问题的根本不是出不出国,是在国内也养不起孩子.那还考虑个啥呢?生了养不起,给不了孩子有物资保证的生活,你还生下来做啥呢?
先到了加,再考虑要孩子,起码政府帮你养,没有养孩子的问题.
楼主还想离婚单亲带孩子,简直更难理解了,孩子出生又没物质保证,还没有父亲在身边,这纯粹是为了要孩子而要孩子,生出来小孩痛苦大人也痛苦,何必呢?

 

[可可]

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看到后面才知道楼主已经做了决定,貌似经济问题解决了?还是真要卖房子生孩子? 于我是完全无法理解,不过还是衷心祝福楼主心想事成,一切顺利.

 

[cking]

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X光,打胎,离婚..
就为了个移民,都不值得去想的事情.

 

[newcomer1981]

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准备下午去体检，X光检测等到生完孩子后补交，登陆推迟一年。

谢谢大家。

 

[newcomer1981]

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看到后面才知道楼主已经做了决定,貌似经济问题解决了?还是真要卖房子生孩子? 于我是完全无法理解,不过还是衷心祝福楼主心想事成,一切顺利.

你不理洁穷人在国内生孩子很难，你不理解每月3000元一家子，还要供养父母的生活。

 

[snowolf2008]

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本来在劳工的再三保证下，我决定去流产。

现在我觉得很不情愿..

绝对不能打掉孩子！

 

[myboy]

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this is mylife,nothing!

你不理洁穷人在国内生孩子很难，你不理解每月3000元一家子，还要供养父母的生活。

 

[tinyhuhulp]

回复: ME到了，孩子要不要？

看了你老公父母的话，心都寒了。什么叫每个月从加拿大寄钱回来当孝顺。在他们心里，出去一定是赚大钱的，加币对RMB一比五阿。他们就没想过现在经济不景气，你们出去能不能找到工作养活自己都是个问题。
再说了，你老公想出去也是想疯了。竟然可以脱产学法语。前提是根本没考虑过自身的情况，根本没这个富余的钱去脱产学习。像他们这种把移民当成目的，想着只要能出去就什么都好的功利心态是不行的。
而且人的承诺是不能信的。现在说没小孩不要紧，是不要紧。反正只要出了国，将来再怎么贫困潦倒吃援助，回国还顶着个华侨的头街。甩了你再找个年轻的结婚生小孩还不是很容易的一件事吗？
虽然说得不好听，也不知你最后选择是什么，只希望你要多为自己和小孩想想。有时候，有付出不一定有回报的。

你的话和我的父母说法一样。

可是和我老公父母说的正好相反。

 

[tinyhuhulp]

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如果你老公真的喜欢小孩，为什么又想你流产或者离婚呢？难道这一年半载都等不到？也不想看着小孩出生？婚姻还不如出国重要？劝你老公再等一等吧。

谢谢了，问题都解决了，电话我就不打了。
因为他是护理专业。外加法语好英语也好，在魁北克和安省据说能直接作护士。或者至少他能做个养老院护理。反正他以前就在医院高干病房给人把屎把尿。


据去加拿大的同学说，国内护士只要语言好，在某些省不需要执照即可工作。

相当年他其实也不想脱产学法语，是我逼迫的，现在找不到工作，我也有一些责任。

他其实很想要孩子的，刚结婚就想要，最后很久没怀孕，他不得以改变了说法，说自己不喜欢小孩。

天天说假话，估计最后把自己都骗了。

不过谢天谢地，他今天说其实喜欢小孩，以前因为总是无法怀孕，为了消除我的压力才说不喜欢小孩的。