每个人都能发悄悄话的,你也可以发。楼主不对陌生人说自己的私人资料也是自由。我的QQ被盗我都不知道,我的朋友告诉我我的QQ被盗了,盗取人用我的名义向他借钱,他觉得可疑的两点:1.以前我极少上QQ,我不用QQ。2.我从不向别人借钱。i strongly recommend you register a skype account. it's really convenient and economic when you make contacts with families and friends esp. when you are abroad.