如果不是心理健康问题的话(抑郁症、焦虑症、人格障碍之类的),也不是特别大的无法逆转的人生问题(亲人亡故)。只是人生际遇导致的,那也可以试试听听音乐,有的时候激烈一点的音乐比舒缓的更能释放负面情绪。
对我来说,Garbage的音乐一般都能让我最快平静下来,youtube留言里,你常常能看到下面很多人说这个乐队的音乐是如何让他们度过艰难时刻的。他们的词写得很好,让你感到你的痛苦被理解了。
随便摘点YouTube留言:
“i have never felt so alone. i'm in a terrible place and is so hard to keep going when nothing good happens. sometimes the pain we feel inside is so much worse than any fisical pain. garbage has always helped me. i wish they knew how important they are for people like me. ”
“I used to listen to this song on my mp3 every time I feel down and out, then , somehow, after a while, I'd found my equilibrium again. ”
Not your kind of people, Beloved freak(超治愈), The trick is to keep breath, Automatic Systematic habit, Medication, Drive you home, 他们的好歌太多了,20多年如一日。