nemo2002 说:
我认识的这几家都是拿了身份的，有的是全家都拿了，有的是一个人或两个人拿了。
准备从蒙逃跑了.惭愧啊
- 主题发起人 清凉月影
- 发布时间 2006-04-27
我认识的这几家都是拿了身份的，有的是全家都拿了，有的是一个人或两个人拿了。
清凉月影 说:
好自为之吧!你认为为家人收拾房间也委屈,为丈夫的决定也委屈.我无话可说了.为自己孩子考虑也委屈.那是你孩子吗?我看你的口气像在讲别人的孩子.为你好才打这么多字,家是最不能讲理的地方.现在也不是报怨的时侯.打起精神好好爱他们吧,照顾他们,让他们先体验久违 了的家的感受.很多家庭的事往往一念之差,祝你顺利.
家里乱一点怕什么,心不要乱了.
你是太累了吧?希望你能理智地考虑问题不要太追求完美.自己累别人也累.希望听到你的好消息.我不想打击你只希望你的生活会越来越好!
jinhua 说:
能说说他们都是参加些什么职业培训吗？
如果您体会一下一家人过来,一年多没有半点工作收入全是靠国内那点积蓄过日子的话,您就明白为什么我这么急了.诚然,蒙的福利是不错,COFI补助和孩子的奶金,可是我们放弃国内优越的物质条件就是为了到这里蹭人家的补助么?
无论是什么,我个人认为,经济是第一位的.人,要谋生.
无论是回国也好,去爱也好,都是为了把自己卖个好价钱,过的更舒服.
现在细想,当初的很多决定都是不明智的.如今已然如此,只有更加努力.
无论是什么,我个人认为,经济是第一位的.人,要谋生.
无论是回国也好,去爱也好,都是为了把自己卖个好价钱,过的更舒服.
现在细想,当初的很多决定都是不明智的.如今已然如此,只有更加努力.
annieyu 说:
这个,惭愧一下,我是标准的完美主义者.
有的是读着法语班，找到了卡城的工作就飞过去了，有一个学的是医护，最近走的一个学的是细木工，，，，还有一个是拿了一个卡车司机的执照，，还是那句话，跟着感觉走，一个人一个走法。nemo2002 说:
haha ,不要着急，慢慢来
对了想问你一下，，英语的part time班在那里，又抵制和电话吗
我也刚来，在国内法语噎两个月左右，在这边直接上2级，但考试的人发育适应，其他的人都不适应，慢慢来吧
对了想问你一下，，英语的part time班在那里，又抵制和电话吗
我也刚来，在国内法语噎两个月左右，在这边直接上2级，但考试的人发育适应，其他的人都不适应，慢慢来吧
No pains,no gains.
清凉月影,挺住.
清凉月影,挺住.
让humika或着老刘给你批讲批讲就好拉
我还是支持楼主的,BTW,这里写英文,写法文的,我知道你们优秀,问题是讨论问题这里也有中国不会外语的人看,本来就是大家交流讨论回归的问题,所以,我觉得你们show外语SHOW错了地方,拜托尽量写英文方便大家讨论.
我支持LZ是因为,我觉得她虽然没有呆久,可是身未动,心已远,真正西方的那种思维意识比加国呆了好久的人都要浓一点,比如对生活质量的要求,对待自己失业的要求,对子女生活的独立意识.这才是出国移居或者发展的精髓.
所以我觉得这里论坛上,楼主是不多的真正很西化的人,也许将来更加顺利的时间再次登录北美也可以. 比如退休后,孩子大点读大学什么后.
个人观点,欢迎讨论.
我支持LZ是因为,我觉得她虽然没有呆久,可是身未动,心已远,真正西方的那种思维意识比加国呆了好久的人都要浓一点,比如对生活质量的要求,对待自己失业的要求,对子女生活的独立意识.这才是出国移居或者发展的精髓.
所以我觉得这里论坛上,楼主是不多的真正很西化的人,也许将来更加顺利的时间再次登录北美也可以. 比如退休后,孩子大点读大学什么后.
个人观点,欢迎讨论.
祝楼主一路走好，心态还是要自己调整，解决问题要找到根本原因，不要盲目的搬来搬去，心态只能越来越乱的！
以楼主的各性，很难在加拿大安心待下去，因为这里远远不象国内般繁华，要新鲜空气哪儿都有。这里一样特讲究人际关系，老外自己都承认找工作最有效的手段就是NETWORK，以前在国内很少考虑过交朋友为的是找工作或发展，到了这里我现在正在努力发展自己的NETWORK，虽然我很不愿意为了混口饭而跟别人套近乎，但为了工作不得不如此呀，在国内的时候我都是和自己喜欢或志同道合的朋友在一起，可到了这里我TMD见到谁都要个电话或电邮什么的，这就是所谓“简单的生活”？不过在国内的时候我只是感觉不到自己的关系网，同学，亲戚，这些网络是自然的，到了这里要自己经营。尽量多认识人，不管自己喜欢不喜欢。我觉得比国内恶心多了。不认识人的话，机会都没有，没看见人家说这里开出租的比坐出租的学历高吗？管你是博士还是硕士也要去干LABOUR。
LZ在国内确实过的很优裕,很好很安逸的工作,没有吃过什么苦,有什么麻烦事也有家里人罩着,所以才有充分的时间和金钱扮靓,而且很追求完美,也比较以自我为中心。我旁边有很多这样的MM，（我的分析）。我建议LZ还是回国，因为在这里，如果你不能打起精神，必然会影响到LG的精神状态，然后就是到孩子，与其这样，不如暂时再分开一下，多点时间给大家，你也可以回去好好再学法语，多在思想上做些准备。
我发现我够50帖了。真高兴。
annieyu 说:
你的生活经验很丰富哦！
我没吃过苦。。。。我好怕。。。
don't be mad with me. i'm here not to show off, i'm here talking sth in which all of us has an interest. i've written in french only because i thought u could read french, for u live in montreal, and u must have passed the french interview successfully and perhpas u've learned french since a long time.
someone in vancour or toronto section dislikes my this habit, saying that i'm too poor at english to write english correctly, they even thought i would present my pretext of not having a chinese input system. the truth is that the computer that i use often in the company is not equiped with a chinese input system, but even if the chinese input system exists, i will still prefer writing english or french, for i have no big problem with my chinese, but this is not true with my english or french. i just cannot help missing any chance to speak or write these two languages 'avec jalousie', and truely saying, i enjoy it.
i'm not a person of arrogance, if u write my french message or english ones, for an arrogant person doesn't have such writing style, they are quick to anger and fast to conlusions. just like the bible said ' easy to be crossed'.
with a simple frenchhleper software, u will understand my french message with easiness. what i want to say in my french message is to encourage the post author to cherish her hard-gained opportunity of settling in montreal, and to redefine her present conditions, in the consideration of other immigrant people in many corner of the globe.
u know, sth. about ' cannot see the forest for the trees', read some stories about other immigrant people: jews in usa, turkish in germany, north coreens in russia, chinese in euope at the beginning of the previous century and those after the WW II, indians and pakistani in england, boat people in europe and in north american, latinos in usa, libanais in europe, eastern europeens in west europe...
hi, i invite u to read my french message instead of scolding me, for at least u can understand two things at least, firstly, i'm lucky to have no possession of a personality of arrogance, as u thought. secondly, u 've been studying french, probably this constitutes your big head-ache at this moment.
don't be mad, have fun.
someone in vancour or toronto section dislikes my this habit, saying that i'm too poor at english to write english correctly, they even thought i would present my pretext of not having a chinese input system. the truth is that the computer that i use often in the company is not equiped with a chinese input system, but even if the chinese input system exists, i will still prefer writing english or french, for i have no big problem with my chinese, but this is not true with my english or french. i just cannot help missing any chance to speak or write these two languages 'avec jalousie', and truely saying, i enjoy it.
i'm not a person of arrogance, if u write my french message or english ones, for an arrogant person doesn't have such writing style, they are quick to anger and fast to conlusions. just like the bible said ' easy to be crossed'.
with a simple frenchhleper software, u will understand my french message with easiness. what i want to say in my french message is to encourage the post author to cherish her hard-gained opportunity of settling in montreal, and to redefine her present conditions, in the consideration of other immigrant people in many corner of the globe.
u know, sth. about ' cannot see the forest for the trees', read some stories about other immigrant people: jews in usa, turkish in germany, north coreens in russia, chinese in euope at the beginning of the previous century and those after the WW II, indians and pakistani in england, boat people in europe and in north american, latinos in usa, libanais in europe, eastern europeens in west europe...
hi, i invite u to read my french message instead of scolding me, for at least u can understand two things at least, firstly, i'm lucky to have no possession of a personality of arrogance, as u thought. secondly, u 've been studying french, probably this constitutes your big head-ache at this moment.
don't be mad, have fun.
笑.真是说什么的都有.
还是要好好分析分析自己,看自己的长处和弱点.看自己工作的技术在这里的形势.
呵呵.
家,偶是回不去了.今生,只是客死异乡的鬼了啦.唉.
还是要好好分析分析自己,看自己的长处和弱点.看自己工作的技术在这里的形势.
呵呵.
家,偶是回不去了.今生,只是客死异乡的鬼了啦.唉.
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